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Lavender Womyn is a lesbian social group, which originally started in Salem, Oregon, but has grown so much we have branched off into many chapters througout the country.  Click on the links at the bottom of this web page to visit the Lavender Womyn group you're interested in finding out more about. The group was "unofficially" started on June 1, 2003. We had nineteen womyn and thirteen children who came together for a barbecue. Since then, we've grown to over 400 womyn for the Oregon groups alone! Our age group is all ages. We have womyn in their early 20's up to around age 70 and beyond. Lavender Womyn has been very successful in our area and has helped a lot of women, therefore we'd like to take Lavender Womyn nationwide to help other communities, so if you would like to start a Lavender Womyn's group in your city, please email me and I will get you set up. Lavender Womyn Personals went LIVE on May 19, 2006. This is another way of connecting singles, couples and families. You can search the database for friendships, relationships, and find singles, couples or families of similar interests. You can create you own profile, upload photos, chat, IM, blog, and much more. We have reached over a thousand members, and have members from other countries like the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, India, and more!!

The Story of How it All Began....

Our group was actually started by accident (of course, I don't truly believe it was an accident).  A friend of mine, Fun Linda, and I were talking over dinner one night about having a small barbecue.  Getting a few of her lesbian friends and a few of mine together to meet and build some new friendships.  Originally, we were thinking of maybe 6 or so of us getting together.  Well, over the next few weeks, I started thinking about other womyn I knew and groups who might be interested in attending our barbecue, so I extended the invitation out a little further, and a little further, and a little further.  Next thing I knew, I had a houseful of womyn and children showing up for some socializing, fun and food!!  We had womyn come from as far South as Eugene and as far North as Olympia, Washington.  The funny thing is that my friend, Fun Linda, never made it to the barbecue.  She was stranded over at the coast while I was left trying to handle this barbecue by myself, but everyone was very kind and helped out wherever they could.  We had so much fun, we decided to come together again the next month, and then the next, and the next.  After four months, I saw we had something happening here in Salem.  I saw a huge need being met, friendships being built, relationships growing, and womyn having a great time socializing with one another.  So, I wanted to make this official and come up with a group name.  I had a contest asking the womyn to submit their ideas.  The person who submitted the winning name would receive a prize.  Needless to say, the ideas came pouring in!  It was a lot of fun seeing the creativity of all the different names.  It ended up being a close race between three different ones, but Adeena came up with the name "Wild Lavender Women" and won the contest.  There was some concern expressed about having the word "Wild" in our name (thinking maybe people would get the wrong idea about us laid back, mellow womyn), so I tweaked the name a bit, and that's when "Lavender Womyn" was officially born on October 22nd, 2003!

Some of us are moms, and some of us aren't.  Some of us are single, and others are not.  We have events which include the children, and then sometimes we have the need to just have "adult" time together.  Womyn travel from all over to attend our events, so no matter what your status or where you live, I'm sure you'll find Lavender Womyn to be very open, warm, and welcoming.  Besides, you never know how it may change your life...on June 1st (our very first barbecue) was where I met, Kathy, my soul mate and love of my life!!  So, come join us and have some fun.  You'll be glad you did!! Click on the links below to visit the Lavender Womyn Chapter you are interested in finding out more about. Always remember that no matter what city you live in, you are welcome to attend any of the Lavender Womyn events that interests you. In Spirit ~ Kim